“7 Passive Aggressive Control Games Narcissists Play
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“Their word is pretty much meaningless – when they tell you something it just isn’t going to happen.”
“They are really working hard to be friendly.”
“I call this one, “yeah, well, I changed my mind…other times though a narcissist can
see you as being a nuisance…I´m just saying empty words knowing full well I will not follow.”
“My parameters and my time matters, yours don´t.”
“I´m the only one in here whose word matters and if it doesn’t fit with what you want – too bad.”
“Poof, you don’t exist, now there are times when narcissists want to convey strongly their
disapproval of you and and how disgruntled they are toward you,
but instead of saying it out loud, it’s like, here comes the silent treatment, they can
completely go dark and they will ghost you.”
“…and then a seventh passive aggressive controlling game that they´ll play is
what I call “I can” but “you can´t” – narcissists are known for having many
many double standards, for example: “I can be in a bad mood, you can´t´”, “I can spend extra money, you better not.”
“I want to have a sense of consistency in my life and I´m not going to let them bring their dysregulation to me. I´m a person that´s committed to dignity, respect and civility because I like being a person that´s known as a person of peace.”
