“TNC300- BUILDING UP THE NARCISSIST FOR THE NEW SUPPLY. NARCS USE WHAT THEY LEARN FROM YOU ON OTHERS
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“how the longer you stay with a narcissist the more you build them up for someone else, point blank, period, in the story . That’s how it goes, everybody knows the phases of a narcissistic relationship: love bombing, idolization phase, devalue phase and inevitably the discard phase. I know a lot of people who think that this card has to be
physical, but the discard can also be an emotional discard, where they can get rid of you emotionally, they can just
emotionally detach from you if you’re living together or are married or whatever.
They can still they’ll still stay in a relationship with you overall even though they don’t care about you like
they used to or they don’t act like they care about you like you do it’s like you have a glorified roommate uh or
something along those lines right there, so if you’re dealing with narcisstic, understand, the longer you stay with them,
the more they learn from you how to treat the next person better and that’s right there. I was gonna get on a lot of
people’s nerves but that’s how it goes…”
“as i always say, intent matters, intent the intention here matters are they treating the next
person better just because that’s the natural cycle of things or are they treating the next person better to make
the last person feel like are they treating the next person better to make the last person feel like they
that they were not enough for them, intent matters, if the intent is there to hurt the old person, to hurt the old
supply then no it is not the same… you can tell when a relationship changes.. if you understand that you’re dealing with a narcissist, you can tell when it changes they get less affectionate they get less caring they don’t touch you anymore they don’t tell you i love you anymore they don’t they’re not even around you anymore like they used to it’s got like like you said it’s kind of like you have a glorified roommate that sometimes you married to or you have to kind of
be there for the kids together you do you do family events together because you know you have kids together and
things like that but they emotionally disconnect from you, so you don’t feel the flame is went out, the light switch is
flickered off in or in the romantic aspect of your relationships where you just you’re like literally literally
you’re just living together you know so the longer you stay in a relationship like that the more and more toxic it
becomes in the household and then also they learn stuff from you because this is this is where you kind of fall in
line where you hear people say i it hurts so much to watch them give the next person everything that i asked for
everything i had to beg them for they are giving to the next person and that hurts me so badly inside of my core, in
my soul it hurts to the essence of me… so in a normal relationship they’re also giving you those things and y’all like…they withhold those things from you there comes the part of withholding affection withholding love is that withholding love and affection is a form of manipulation.”
